Understanding Cross-Addiction & Polysubstance Abuse: 5 Tips to Start Kicking Multiple Habits Today
If you are anything like me, one of anything isn’t ever enough. I’ve struggled with drug and alcohol dependency for a majority of my life.
And, it never seemed to be just one thing. Of course, I had my favorites or my preferred substance of choice - but that didn’t hinder me from picking up other things or using one substance to counteract the other.
If I was drinking, it was only a matter of time before I was nose deep into a bag of cocaine. When I tried to quit heroin, my answer was combining it and turning full throttle to meth.
It was a never ending destructive cycle. I would become dependent on one substance and turn around and become equally dependent on another.
This made getting sober for me more of a challenge.
I would quit one thing and find myself trailing right back to another. Justifying my behaviors and pretending like I was still making progress in my recovery.
So what is the “technical definition” of cross addiction and polysubstance use?
Cross Addiction is when someone who has recovered from one addiction develops a new addiction to a different substance or behavior. For example, a person who stops drinking alcohol might start abusing prescription pills, or someone who uses drugs might also become addicted to gambling, shopping, or food. This happens because addiction is often rooted in deeper psychological, emotional, or biological factors, making a person more vulnerable to developing other dependencies.
Polysubstance Abuse refers to the use of multiple substances at the same time or within a short period. This can include mixing drugs like alcohol and opioids, cocaine and meth, or prescription medications with street drugs. People who engage in polysubstance use often do so to enhance the effects of one substance, cope with withdrawal, or because they have a general pattern of substance misuse rather than a preference for one specific drug.
Here are some examples of what it might look like in real life:
The Party Seeker – Someone who frequently mixes alcohol with cocaine or MDMA to keep the high going while drinking excessively.
The Pain Management Case – A person prescribed opioids for pain but also uses benzodiazepines and alcohol to enhance the effects or cope with emotional distress.
The Functional Addict – A professional who takes Adderall or cocaine to stay alert during work hours but drinks heavily or smokes marijuana at night to wind down.
The Weekend Binger – Someone who mostly stays sober during the week but mixes various substances like alcohol, prescription pills, and recreational drugs every weekend.
The Escape Artist – A person using heroin or fentanyl to numb emotional pain but also taking Xanax to manage withdrawal symptoms.
The College Experimenter – A student who frequently mixes stimulants like Ritalin or Adderall with alcohol to study and party harder.
The Self-Medicating Individual – Someone struggling with anxiety or PTSD who uses a mix of marijuana, alcohol, and prescription meds to cope with emotions.
The Downer vs. Upper Cycler – A person alternating between stimulants (like meth or cocaine) and depressants (like heroin or benzos) to balance out the highs and lows.
The Relapse Spiral – Someone in recovery from one substance but unknowingly replaces it with another addiction, leading to multiple dependencies.
The Chronic Pain Patient Turned Addict – A person initially prescribed painkillers who then begins mixing them with sleeping pills or alcohol to enhance effects and develop a stronger dependency.
Treating any and all of these issues is never going to be a cake walk, but here’s the good news: you don’t have to wait for some grand intervention or a divine lightning bolt of motivation. You can start right now, where you’re at—messy, exhausted, and possibly questioning your life choices over a cold cup of coffee.
Helpful Tips For getting started Kicking The Shit
1. Get Brutally Honest with Yourself
Listen, no one likes admitting they’ve lost control—especially not us independent, "I’ve got this" types. But the first step is calling yourself out (with love, of course). Grab a journal or your Notes app and start listing out:
What substances you’re using and how often.
The situations that trigger your use (stress, boredom, toxic exes, Tuesday, etc.).
The thoughts and feelings that come up before, during, and after.
Seeing it in black and white is uncomfortable, but it’s also a wake-up call. You can’t change what you refuse to acknowledge.
2. Trace the Roots (No, Not Your Hair—Your Habits)
There’s a reason you reach for that drink, pill, or whatever your poison is. Trauma? Anxiety? Boredom? A subconscious need to self-sabotage like it’s an Olympic sport? Dig deep and ask yourself:
What am I really trying to escape from?
What do these substances give me that I don’t feel I can get elsewhere?
If I had healthier coping skills, what would they even look like?
This isn’t about shaming yourself—it’s about cracking the code on why you keep running back to something that ultimately wrecks you.
3. Baby Steps, Not a Full-On Sprint
If quitting everything cold turkey feels like trying to climb Everest in flip-flops, don’t panic. Cutting back, replacing habits, and making small, intentional choices matter. Maybe today, you drink one less beer. Maybe you swap out your usual coping mechanism with a long walk, a trashy reality TV binge, or a rage-fueled journaling session. Progress is progress.
4. Get Some Backup (Because Lone Wolfing It Sucks)
I know asking for help sounds doesn’t always sound so appealing. But listen, healing in isolation is a slow, miserable process. Whether it’s a support group, a sober friend, or even an online community, find people who get it. You don’t have to spill your soul on day one—just start by listening, engaging, and letting yourself be seen.
5. Prepare for the Emotional Hangover
When you start facing addiction head-on, feelings you’ve been stuffing down will come up. Grief. Anger. Anxiety. The sudden urge to text your ex (don’t do it). It’s normal. The trick is to sit with those feelings instead of numbing them. Therapy, journaling, meditation—find something that helps you process the chaos without running back to old habits. You can do this shit.
You’re not broken, you’re not doomed, and you sure as hell aren’t alone in this. Start small, be kind to yourself, and remember: recovery is something none of us have perfected—it’s all about persistence. And hey, if I can do it, so can you.
Now, go drink some water, get some fresh air, and remind yourself that you’re worth the effort.
No matter where you are on this journey—whether you're taking your first steps toward sobriety or fighting to maintain the progress you've made—I want you to know that I am so incredibly proud of you. Choosing to seek a better life is not easy, but it is so worth it. Keep going, even on the hard days. Especially on the hard days. Because you deserve the peace, clarity, and freedom that comes with sobriety.
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